By Jennifer Mills

How to plan a wedding becomes a priority after you get over the first few dizzy days of love after your engagement. With a few easy tips, you can plan a stellar wedding without stressing out.

Relaxation is a first step. Avoid getting frenzied and remember you are planning a loving celebration. Focus on the love you share and discuss your dreams together. Wrap your wedding plans around your vision, whether you want a winter wedding at a ski lodge or a traditional ceremony at a country club.

Select a date for your wedding. Create a budget and vow to stay with it. Base your budget on realistic expectations and spend 10 percent less so you have extra money for unexpected expenses that are bound to come up.

Maintain a wedding budget notebook where you write down all expenses. Have a folder for receipts to keep track of what you spend and have proof of deposits paid. This type of organization is great practice for married life.

Order wedding rings and decide if you want them engraved with a special sentiment or initials. Decide how many people you want to invite to share your wedding day and whether you want a small or large gathering. Keep a binder to write down your guest list and addresses for wedding invitations. This can even become your telephone book when you get married.

Secure a wedding ceremony site and a reception location for your chosen date. Make sure you know the regulations and requirements at the locations. Pick your menu options based on your budget and preferences.

Choose a theme for your wedding day to create a uniform feeling at your ceremony and reception. Reflect your wedding theme in your invitations, thank you cards, favors and decorations.

Get recommendations from family and friends for vendors such as a florist, entertainment, music, caterer, hairdresser, video professional and photographer so you can review them. Sing up with a gift registry. Find out the requirements for a marriage license.

Shop for your wedding day attire. A bridal gown, veil, shoes and accessories should be ordered in advance along with bridesmaid dresses. Consider tuxedo rental options. Order outfits for the flower girl and ring bearer.

Select exciting decorations for your wedding ceremony, reception and honeymoon getaway car to create a party mood. Little accents go a long way such as centerpieces, wedding favors, a cake topper and bubbles to blow at the happy couple. Remember to choose thoughtful presents to thank you wedding party.

No matter how you plan your wedding, make sure you have a wonderful, unforgettable day.

About The Author

Jennifer Mills is a bridal expert on Articles4Brides.ca and BridalArticles.ca. She specializes on articles about wedding planning, including unique wedding favors and bridal accessories.